Comments on: shoulding, judging, and criticizing ~ oh my http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/ your place for inner peace Fri, 27 Jan 2012 14:12:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Melanie http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3476 Melanie Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:14:08 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3476 Love the quote! Thanks for sharing Terri! Love the quote! Thanks for sharing Terri!

]]> By: Terri Click Sloan http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3475 Terri Click Sloan Tue, 17 Nov 2009 00:22:26 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3475 Hi Melanie. Here is a great quote that relates to shoulding, judging and criticizing: "People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost." H. Jackson Browne, Jr. Hi Melanie. Here is a great quote that relates to shoulding, judging and criticizing:

“People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they’re not on your road doesn’t mean they’ve gotten lost.” H. Jackson Browne, Jr.

]]> By: Melanie http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3441 Melanie Sun, 11 Oct 2009 13:37:29 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3441 Thanks for sharing your thoughts everyone. I appreciate your reading and your comments. I love thinking of your reading my posts. It feels like engaging in a great conversation with great people. Jeff, I've not heard of this book, it sounds interesting and it's an interesting perspective on "oughts." I've been reading "Your Soul's Plan" which as lead me to thinking more about what my soul has in mind for my life and it seems that question, "What ought I do?" is coming from that perspective. Thanks for sharing your thoughts everyone. I appreciate your reading and your comments. I love thinking of your reading my posts. It feels like engaging in a great conversation with great people.

Jeff, I’ve not heard of this book, it sounds interesting and it’s an interesting perspective on “oughts.” I’ve been reading “Your Soul’s Plan” which as lead me to thinking more about what my soul has in mind for my life and it seems that question, “What ought I do?” is coming from that perspective.

]]> By: Claudia Erwin http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3439 Claudia Erwin Sat, 10 Oct 2009 14:30:29 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3439 Melanie, your entries are always so insightful and thought provoking. I don't tell you often enough how much they mean to me. Please keep them coming!!! Melanie, your entries are always so insightful and thought provoking. I don’t tell you often enough how much they mean to me. Please keep them coming!!!

]]> By: Jeff Brunson http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3435 Jeff Brunson Fri, 09 Oct 2009 00:19:34 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3435 Thanks Melanie! I was just talking about you yesterday wtih Eric Benson. I love what Dee Hock taught me in his book "The Chaordic Age" - There are 3 questions that are logical to us. Where are we? Where do we want to go? What should we do? AND then there is the fourth question that we need to learn - What ought I do? I loved what this made me do in my core. It has impacted my thinking since reading the book four years ago. Thanks Melanie! I was just talking about you yesterday wtih Eric Benson. I love what Dee Hock taught me in his book “The Chaordic Age” – There are 3 questions that are logical to us. Where are we? Where do we want to go? What should we do? AND then there is the fourth question that we need to learn – What ought I do? I loved what this made me do in my core. It has impacted my thinking since reading the book four years ago.

]]> By: Pam http://www.peacefruit.com/2009/10/shoulding-judging-and-criticizing-oh-my/comment-page-1/#comment-3434 Pam Thu, 08 Oct 2009 19:11:25 +0000 http://www.peacefruit.com/?p=493#comment-3434 Recently I had an opportunity to employ the law of allowing. Once I let go of the 'should,' it was like pushing off from the side of the pool and swimming freely - such a relief to move downstream instead of fighting the current. It brings such joy and wisdom. Thanks for reminding me how good it felt, Melanie. Pam Recently I had an opportunity to employ the law of allowing. Once I let go of the ‘should,’ it was like pushing off from the side of the pool and swimming freely – such a relief to move downstream instead of fighting the current. It brings such joy and wisdom. Thanks for reminding me how good it felt, Melanie. Pam

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