committed love

With delightful curiosity, a client recently asked, “What is the benefit of participating in a committed relationship?”  Great question.  I’m a fan of the long term commitment to learning to love one person and letting that person learn to love me.  Yet, with her question, I couldn’t quite find the words to answer the question. So here’s round 2 of my attempt...
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practice of the presence

It’s probably a little sacrilegious that I put myself (and you too) in the same realm as saints & sages.  Oh well.  Along with saints and sages, I think that we, too, can know and live in the Truth of the joyous declaration from the Koran, “God is the East and the West, and wherever ye turn, there is God’s face.”  Such a declaration demands that we expand our ideas...
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sacred threads ~ pronouns for god

“I, you, he, she, we. In the garden of mystic lovers, these are not true distinctions.” ~ Shams of Tabriz Does the mystical Divine subscribe to a particular pronoun? I tend to think not.  That may explain my ruthless abandonment of rules when I write about, speak to, consider “GOD.”  Sometimes, He, sometimes She, sometimes It … out in that field.  That field free of...
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heartfelt thanks

Go Gratitude!  Despite life’s ups and downs, there’s so much for which to be grateful.  Even more to the point, being grateful makes my heart sing!  Sometimes, it even feels a little selfish to dive into a luscious pool of gratitude because it feels sooooo good.  Try it.  Get grateful…genuinely, really, authentically grateful. One of my mentors, Dick Olney, told me one time...
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express appreciation

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.” ~ Marcus Tullius Cicero
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